Equation of Love

And that, is the equation of love i would like to discuss about. Been very randomly browsing around lately and read many posts about sexual preference, discrimination, how to seek true happiness and how crazy people are in love with. Just to clarify that what i share here is my own opinion and my own stand on what i feel and what i think makes sense, you do not have to agree with me, and you have the absolute right to go against what i think, but that doesn't mean i'm wrong, either. People say that love makes extremes happen, and love has the power to drive one crazy. Do not ask what is love, because love itself has no definition. But we can make relations to calculate love, and in fact we can find that love is actually a responding variable, coz when we don't need it, it's nothing, but when we want it, it becomes just everything that matters, the whole life is into it.

Let's make the most important thing clear, love does not equal to happily everafter. People watch movies, watch romance films, read magazines that influence your perspective towards intimacy, and of course people try themselves at love wanting to feel how happy the other couples are. But for me, no matter how we weigh love, it is always not as heavy as other fundamental elements, patience, endurance, understanding, dedication, preseverance, hardship, obedience, you can find all the terms that count, and one will only find himself happy when his patience and hardship will push him closer to the one he loves. Without any of these elements, can you say you truly lovingly faithfully love someone? Some people out there thinks that love is having dates, being together, enjoying the most unforgettable moments, be there to cheer for the another, vacations, honeymoon, and the most in love, weddings.

Keep our eyes open, love is not happiness, but happiness is a part of love, that's definite, but wait. We seek love not to have a happily everafter ending which happens only in storybooks, but we seek love to love a person so great that we give away our love to feel love. Sounds complicated? It is, coz love is never taking in, but always giving out. You feel so happy in love because your other half shows his/her love on you, and you do, too. You feel more happy not when your beloved tells you he/she loves you, but when you really do something for him/her and he/she actually feels it so deeply, and tells you how much your dedication is appreciated. Many of us know this feeling, we just want him/her to smile for us, and we just want to be the sort of "guardian angel" that gives everything he/she needs, in time of need or just, anytime.

We endure hardship, trying to build up a family, because we love, and we dedicate ourselves to make all effort in strengthening love, we need love. We wait, we long for, we anxiously look around when our beloved ones are not beside us, we find, we spend time, spend money, sacrifice our own sweet personal times, because of love. We hide away sadness, putting up a smile on our faces, we try to carry all things by our own, give the very best to hold on, because we love. We'd rather take everything on us, than making our beloved ones have even one second of suffering or unhappiness.

Love equals not to happiness, but obedience, and do you know? Love is not a noun, it's a verb.

You can search the dictionary, giving you all the explanations of love as a noun, but why it is more a verb? Simply because love itself is nothing, but we do so much and give so much, our actions are not out of us having love, but we love. We hold our beloved's hand, giving the warm hugs and share our sole blanket, live under one roof, drive one car, and everything of us belong to him/her as well. The more we do and give, the more happiness we find in love. We do not wait for love to come silently knocking your door, but we need to put ourselves into action, love is nothing but actions.

Equation of love, that is, love with a whole heart, love until the very end.

Never stop working for love, and never hide love.

Do not wait to be loved, be the one who loves, and you can be more lovely than you thought you are. Love is everything kind and everything not done to ourselves, again i'd conclude with this,

"we give away love to a person, so that we would feel loved"

Then love will last, much longer than forever.

All my best wishings to everyone in love. Goodnight.